Top Realiziation

I had an interesting conversation on Monday. (Mentioned in passing on
http://maybemaimed.com/2009/04/01/now-i-remember-why-i-love-and-hate-new-york-citys-bdsm-scene/ )

It was a good conversation, and it lead me to a realization.

I feel most comfortable topping when I'm doing what I want done to me. An interesting variation of the golden rule perhaps - "do onto others what you think would be hot if it was done unto you"

I can and have done things that I don't want done to me, but I don't go easily into 'top' space to do so. I wonder if this is a 'switchy' issue that other switchs face?

Meh, mostly I am posting to say I'm not dead, and I'm still kinky.